Anal Sex

Slang terms for Anal Sex include: "Bone smuggling", "Driving the Hershey highway", "Enter through the back door", "Plowing the back field", and "Gardening uphill".

When preparing to have anal sex with your partner, foreplay is often a must. Spend time building up the mood which will help get you both excited and up for the main event. If you’re topping, let your partner be your guide. They will tell you what feels good, what doesn't feel good, and how fast or slow to go.

The team at esmale have picked three of the many positions designed to help beginners get the most out of anal sex. In fact there is a whole collection on esmale dedicated to anal toys for beginners

1. In the first position, your partner should be on their knees and elbows, bent over. If your partner has something under their chest, such as a pillow or a blanket, they may help him bcomee more comfortable. Your partner should try to relax as much as possible. If it will help them, try to get them to think about something other than what you are about to do. Once the anus is relaxed, it is not only much easier for you to penetrate it, but will also be less painful for your partner.

2. Your partner should lay on their back with their knees up. Once again, a pillow, cushion, or a blanket may help them feel more comfortable. Place the pillow or blanket under their bum this time. The extra height will help you to enter the anus more easily.

3. Your partner would lie on his side. Their legs can be either spread apart as if they were taking a step forward, or they could bring their upper leg up to their chest. There are other ways they may position their legs if they wish. They should do what ever feels comfortable and pleasurable for them. This will then help relax them for when you enter!